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Sadness and Loss - Mans best friend and loved family member BUSTA


Yesterday my world got rocked. I have almost become numb and froozen as my son and I cried over the phone at the loss of a family member.
Busta a beautiful Kelpie came into my home during my Chemo for my breast cancer 3 and a half years ago, he was the happy addition and much loved new family member in a time where the house was in a bit of termoil. We have 3 dogs and the kelpie Busta fits into our life perfectly, loved by us all.
Having 3 boys and 3 boy dogs the house is always fun. Busta is the only dog that would play ball and amuse me with the amount of times he could keep getting that ball.  I call boys come for breaky and the dogs appear first.
Damian had him well trained and doing tricks in no time, mans best friend is true. Busta was like a human. When I was laying down he was by my side, when I ironed or cooked he was by my side.

Today the tears are flowing as yesterday at 3.30pm Busta's life ended in a terrible acident. I wanted to share this today because loss is apart of life and it hurts. I love my 3 boys more than anything, I would take a bullet for them anytime. Today I feel helpless as its a tradgedy for our family. The pain is intense greiving is hard.

RIP Busta - we love you and you will always be with us. Thank you for making our lives richer for loving you, you will never be forgotten. In our hearts forever.

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