Breast Cancer, dating and men

Relationships are supposed to be easy. I will say they should be. I like the romance and the voyage of getting to know someone. Men and woman are a little confused these days and are unsure of what lies ahead.
I say a great connection, someone who makes you laugh and understands you. I am not going to say you must have common interests as that requires a little give and take.
When your body goes through lots of surgeries and there are mental scars, that is obvious but then its the physical side as well. I am pretty eager to have my surgeries over and I thought they would be.
I have one more to go. I am dealing with this side really well, the men do not seem to mind and my boobs look great considering what they have been through.
I thought at 50 I would be settling down, but it is a test of time and finding the right person to settle down with. The voyage continues and I am very happy about my future and very excited what might happen next. The last few relationships were not for me at all. Its not being fussy its just not being pulled down by people's baggage, some have loads.
I really think this year sees me on the right track. In December it will be my 5 years since breast cancer and really life goes on. I have a nice man that I am getting to know so who knows.
Stay tuned.....

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